XxSuicidal_RomancexX Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Hey everyone I need your help. You see my ex best friend has my ss card and wont give it back. Im only 17 and hes only 16 and he said he wont give it back and will hurt me if I try to get it. Do any of you have any advice. I could really use it because, you need your ssn for everything and I dont remeber it. And etc. Anyways... Thanks if you can help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xRogue 5x Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Tell your parents immediately or contact law enforcement. That is something that should not be played around with. Ignore is threats of violence as he is just being a bully. The kid sounds like a real douche. Anyway let someone know immediately!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XxSuicidal_RomancexX Posted November 20, 2008 Author Share Posted November 20, 2008 Thanks for the reply ^^ But can the police even do anything? Its very stressful and I dont want to tell my dad because.. Frankly, he will flip shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orion514 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 This is too serious to not tell someone. He might not do anything or not even know what he really has, but if he does it could spell real trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KRIS DETH Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Definatly tell your parents!! but what is an SS card?? anyone mind telling me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xX MaslaN Xx Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Send his ass away thats identity theft, thats an easy 5 years right there. Call the cops like RIGHT NOW and see how fast he shits him self when your at the door with the cops. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackjaw x Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Send his ass away thats identity theft, thats an easy 5 years right there. Call the cops like RIGHT NOW and see how fast he shits him self when your at the door with the cops. Or she and herself... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pootcrum Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 (edited) Definatly tell your parents!! but what is an SS card?? anyone mind telling me? Im guessing Social Security? But yeh everyones right, talk to someone, cops, parents, anyone at your school you can trust to handle the matter carefully. But you cant sit around doing nothing. And like has been said, ignore the threats, this person has to learn that he cant get away with stuff. Edited November 20, 2008 by Pootcrum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albinobass Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Your Social Security number is who you are. Call the cops and press charges lol make em realize not to fuck with something so serious over a pedley friendship(no offense) but that could screw you out of a lot of things, like a license and ID Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IRONMAN Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Wow, can the law do anything? Your joking right? That's a very, very important piece of information. Your parents should call this kids parents, and or the police asap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FoxRacing1234 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 I think you should talk to your parents first, see what they think, and if nothing good comes out of talking to them then call the police. Guarantee you will get it back that way, since this is theft. That is, by far, the easiest way for someone's identity to be stolen. After you get it back, don't talk to this person again. You may have been friends but a real friend wouldn't do something like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clipse 2 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Definatly tell your parents!! but what is an SS card?? anyone mind telling me? Social Security Card, its kind of like an ID card unique to each person a social security card is issued at birth here in the states. This ties everything financial to that particular person it was issued for, meaning if you want a loan, a contract cell phone, buying a car and need financing, all of that goes through credit checks which a social security number is required for. Since their card is stolen by a former friend, said former friend could do some damage by selling the SSN off to other people, or could in fact illegally use it themselves which as mentioned is identity theft. Honestly man, I'd tell your parents about it, at least get them involved and contacting the other kid's parents, if they won't do anything then go legal on them. We're talking about a pretty important matter here because if something happens to your credit it could mean bad things when dealing with future things; student loans, car loans, housing loans, bank loans. You could need one of these things in the future and if someone's wrecked your credit it's going to be really tough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xX MaslaN Xx Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Hey everyone I need your help. You see my ex best friend has my ss card and wont give it back. Im only 17 and hes only 16 and he said he wont give it back and will hurt me if I try to get it. Do any of you have any advice. I could really use it because, you need your ssn for everything and I dont remeber it. And etc. Anyways... Thanks if you can help Or she and herself... Im only 17 and hes only 16 and he said he wont give it back and will hurt me if I try to get it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tussell Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 First of all, coming to x360a for such a personal issue isn't going to help it be resolved per se. I mean, I guess you feel comfortable coming to people you don't know personally, which I can totally understand... I'm just saying, it's almost impossible that you didn't have an instinct to tell your parents or the law... When it comes to something like this, go with your instincts and do the right thing. Your dad will get mad, that's a temporary thing... Having your SS Card taken away can hurt you in the long-run forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xK1NG L30N1DASx Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 You could always hire to me to go whoop some ass for ya but in all honestly yes you can get the law involved in this but you should at least tell your parents. why does he even have your SS card tho? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SootierJJ Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 everyone is right just do as they say and if you are older why don't you confront him or something.you should be bullying him lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PunksNotDead2k8 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 call the cops or tell your parents.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exo-apollo Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Inform the Emperor of your ex-friends misdeeds. A letter will be promptly sent and your friend will no doubt fall on his own sword to avoid the shame of being called before the senate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XxSuicidal_RomancexX Posted November 20, 2008 Author Share Posted November 20, 2008 Inform the Emperor of your ex-friends misdeeds. A letter will be promptly sent and your friend will no doubt fall on his own sword to avoid the shame of being called before the senate. Hahaha hilarious. I didnt want to tell my dad because he would get pissed but ill have to it seems. But I guess id have to now. And He was high when he said hed beat me up he said he doesnt remember. I told him I wouldnt be his friend anymore because hes always high thats when he said he wouldnt give it back. But thanks everyone =] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krucifiedkevin Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Hahaha hilarious. I didnt want to tell my dad because he would get pissed but ill have to it seems. But I guess id have to now. And He was high when he said hed beat me up he said he doesnt remember. I told him I wouldnt be his friend anymore because hes always high thats when he said he wouldnt give it back. But thanks everyone =] speaking as a father.(my oldest is 16) i would want to know so i could help you. the reaction maybe a little rough at first, but its not so much anger towards you as it is, anger towards the situation.. i would be angry at your "friend", BUT i would be a little upset with you for putting yourself in that situation. that being said, doing nothing will not solve your problem. tell your parents, especially if you think his threats and this whole incident is valid. not only that but it would give you brownie points in my book, since you dont want to be friends with someone getting high all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boo47 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 speaking as a father.(my oldest is 16) i would want to know so i could help you. the reaction maybe a little rough at first, but its not so much anger towards you as it is, anger towards the situation.. i would be angry at your "friend", BUT i would be a little upset with you for putting yourself in that situation. that being said, doing nothing will not solve your problem. tell your parents, especially if you think his threats and this whole incident is valid. not only that but it would give you brownie points in my book, since you dont want to be friends with someone getting high all the time. I'm with the old man on this one (who, oddly, has the same first name as me). So, instead of reading this post, you should be telling your parents about the stolen SS card. If you're reading this, you obviously didn't pay attention to the previous sentence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie Solo Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Definatly tell your parents!! but what is an SS card?? anyone mind telling me? Its the American version of our National Insurance Number Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XxSuicidal_RomancexX Posted November 20, 2008 Author Share Posted November 20, 2008 Hey again. I got it back I went with the police. I didnt press charges but if he speaks to me again I will. Thanks everyone.. And my dad wasnt that mad =] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IRONMAN Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 lol..kids these days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krucifiedkevin Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 I'm with the old man on this one (who, oddly, has the same first name as me). So, instead of reading this post, you should be telling your parents about the stolen SS card. If you're reading this, you obviously didn't pay attention to the previous sentence. lol!! ouch!! i'm not that old!!! and actually its the first time that i have been called an "old man" its all good though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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