TheWarriorElite Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 ok so this girl started working with me about a year ago and back then we got talking went out for a few drinks ect... and a few weeks after that we got together it was going great for about 2 weeks (we were together for 3 months). Then she started acting all strange avoding me not answering my calls or replying texts we still talked at work but that was the only time i saw her, then one morning she text me saying shes not ready for a relationship so i was like fair enough nothing i could do. Then about a month after that i found out she had her own girlfriend WTF and they got engaged so i thought theres no way i can get back with her, but over the past month or so weve been talking and flirting with eachother everyday at work i never thought anything of it but i took her out for a drink last night and we were getting on better than ever (i've never heard her talk so much lol) so i asked her if she was still with her girlfriend and she said no but i saw she was still wearing the engagement ring. I dont know what to do people say that we have chemistry and would make a good couple i do still like her after all thats happend but i donno if i should ask her to be my gf again or just stay as friends. What should i do????? thanks for reading my story and any advice would be appreciated i sure do pick my women haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
removed-user Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 Hmmmm. So it seems like she broke up with her gf but still wears the engagement ring? I would say that she's either lying to you or is wearing it for sentimental value so your best bet would be to get the real truth before going any further on this. If she is defenitely done with the other girl then by all means ask her to get back with you and see what happens but if she's somehow lying to you then it's not worth the trouble. It's as simple as that really. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rolyatkcinmai Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 The answer seems obvious; threesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zombie Ghandi Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 Its your life, you should make your own decisions or ask smarties- they have the answers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
syntax419 Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 I would think that if she was not w/ her gf anymore then she would've taken the ring off. I'm thinking she's playing you. Could be wrong, I don't exactly have all the facts, but that ring is reason enough for me to tell her to take a hike (or a threesome ). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToXiCRalN Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 She's probably just wearing it for looks. But she could be lying. Maybe she wants some boy and girl action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowman Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 (edited) The answer seems obvious; threesome. QFT but anyways get to know her again until both of you are comfortable enough to talk about what really happened and then work off of that Edited May 30, 2009 by Snowman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
removed-user Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 Oh and if you do get back together with her try to not be so clingy because it seems from what you wrote that you were smothering her by texting and calling her constantly which may have been one of the factors she left in the first place. If you're going to be in a relationship then you should know how to handle it and be comfortable with it without the need to be in constant touch with her. That sort of thing is only done by people who are insecure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheWarriorElite Posted May 30, 2009 Author Share Posted May 30, 2009 (edited) Hmmmm. So it seems like she broke up with her gf but still wears the engagement ring? I would say that she's either lying to you or is wearing it for sentimental value so your best bet would be to get the real truth before going any further on this. If she is defenitely done with the other girl then by all means ask her to get back with you and see what happens but if she's somehow lying to you then it's not worth the trouble. It's as simple as that really. Good luck! thanks for the advice mate, she still goes out drinking with her infact she joined us for a quick drink last night but they were not talking much her gf couldent get a word in anyway we were having such a laugh lol so im just not sure whats going on with them two Oh and if you do get back together with her try to not be so clingy because it seems from what you wrote that you were smothering her by texting and calling her constantly which may have been one of the factors she left in the first place. If you're going to be in a relationship then you should know how to handle it and be comfortable with it without the need to be in constant touch with her. That sort of thing is only done by people who are insecure. I was never clingy with her, the first time we were together she would never reply so i just didnt bother ringing & texting her all the time, she was clingy at first and then i donno what happend Edited May 30, 2009 by TheWarriorElite Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XLO Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 Threesome!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mace1982 Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 dude i have seen my fair share of cack with women and i can defo be a touch insecure, i am with someone now i dont doubt how they feel i just doubt myself which makes it hard until i realise why would they be their if they were not interested!!!! All i can say is go for it because if you dont will you spend the rest of your time wondering what if, if the answer is yea ask the lady out for the love of all things ask her out!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mister Buds Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 i hate to post this buzz killing response, but i'm pretty cynical, and it's a possibility. seeing that she's still wearing her ring, it could mean that she is still engaged to her girlfriend. maybe she's slightly unhappy with the way the engagement is currently going though, so she's using you to make her fiance jealous. if not... threesome! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Deleted2014-12-02 Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 I love the responses in this thread. I love this site so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glowin Smurff Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 if you don't want just a fling w/ her, or w/ her and her other, because lets face it it's a triangle and it's bad news if your going to try to get serious, you should honestly just forget about her and you. you could stay friends, but as far as taking it past that, it's going to bring nothing but trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kunduz Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 The answer seems obvious; threesome. the answer is right there: threesome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cokix Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 the answer seems obvious; threesome. looooooooooooooooooooooool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marishtar Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 You're asking dating advice from a website dedicated to getting video game achievements. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cokix Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 You're asking dating advice from a website dedicated to getting video game achievements. This is General Off Topic so.. is a good thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exo-apollo Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 The answer seems obvious; threesome. Haha yep and then straight out the bathroom window, this whole situation sounds messy. I think you should bail on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ApochWeiss Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 Get the two together...get them drunk...and hope for a miracle Just kidding. I'd say try to get the truth out first, just hang out as friends for a bit and see what happens. if she's still with the girl and cheats on her with you, nothing you can do about it. I know frome xperience, many girls did it to me in my life time and, hey, what can you do except hope the best for them and punch the other guy in the face. Though, technically, it's the cheater himself/herself (whatever the case me be considering gender, life style, and emo confusion) who should be at fault and not the hapless cheetee. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheWarriorElite Posted May 31, 2009 Author Share Posted May 31, 2009 Thanks for the help guys i've had a long hard think about this and i think im just gonna leave it for now, the whole thing is just so messed up but hay if she wants some boy, girl action or boy, girl, girl im sure i could help out haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dm master Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 NIce attitude there warrior Maybe u shud find another girl with "lose morals" to join the fun as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zombie Ghandi Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 NIce attitude there warrior Maybe u shud find another girl with "lose morals" to join the fun as well ARE YOU MAD?! Im sure everyone loves the porno fantasy of three girls and one guys with all its baby oil and gyration but pause and imagine the reality if you will. Three women who want to be sexually satisfied, three women of "loose morals" and questionable sanity. Three women with talon like nails and razor sharp teeth. If hell hath no fury like a woman scorned wtf hath fury like three crazy horny frustrated ladies?! any one of them could treat your ding-a-ling like a chomp bar, or shred yer happy sack. any one of them could be on top then sudenly wrench- breaking you, do you want to look like banana man after he was forced into the porn industry? HECK three against one you could wake up with one pinning your legs, another pinning your arms and the third walking in from the kitchen with a bread knife... no mate that ground is too fucking dangerous for the likes of us, thats Chuck Norris ground. p.s. if you insist on going for the foursome keep a careful eye on the one with teeth like Ed the horse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetWrath Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 This is a rather wierd situation! I really think that you should leave it though. If she's still wearing the ring and the breakup was recent, it seems to me like she's on the rebound. She's looking around for someone to tell her that its going to be ok and that she's still worthy etc etc. Take a step back and just remain friends for the time being. Atleast untill that ring come's off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearded Bugs Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 ARE YOU MAD?! Im sure everyone loves the porno fantasy of three girls and one guys with all its baby oil and gyration but pause and imagine the reality if you will. Three women who want to be sexually satisfied, three women of "loose morals" and questionable sanity. Three women with talon like nails and razor sharp teeth. If hell hath no fury like a woman scorned wtf hath fury like three crazy horny frustrated ladies?! any one of them could treat your ding-a-ling like a chomp bar, or shred yer happy sack. any one of them could be on top then sudenly wrench- breaking you, do you want to look like banana man after he was forced into the porn industry? HECK three against one you could wake up with one pinning your legs, another pinning your arms and the third walking in from the kitchen with a bread knife... no mate that ground is too fucking dangerous for the likes of us, thats Chuck Norris ground. p.s. if you insist on going for the foursome keep a careful eye on the one with teeth like Ed the horse. I'm gonna have nightmares tonight... But to the OP, don't go for bisexual girls, being in competition with TWO genders would piss me off to no end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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