Dragon Age: Origins

Dragon Age: Origins Achievements

Wine, Woman, and Song

Experienced the thrill of romance with Leliana   

You can be either female or male to complete this romance. Leliana is found in Lothering. She'll be in the town's pub. Be very nice to her and you'll gain a lot of points quickly. Talk to her about her past. Always be nice to her and compliment her. You'll need to have the romance meter all the way to 100 to complete it with Leliana. See Hopelessly Romantic for more details.

Andraste's Grace (Redcliffe Village, West Brecilian Forest, or Eleven Alienage in Denerim)
Bronze Symbol of Andraste (Lothering)
Chantry Amulet (Circle Tower)
Etched Silver Symbol (Ortan Thaig)
Golden Symbol of Andraste (Orzammar Commons)
Nug (Orzammar Dust Town) *Note: Leliana has to see one. Then head to Dust Town and ask the Idle Dwarf to catch one.
Silver Sword of Mercy (Old Tegrin, he's a Dwarven merchant you'll meet in a random encounter)
Steel Symbol of Andraste (Brother Genitivi's Home in Denerim Market)

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User Comments
Comment #1 by flakeysuperior2
Wednesday, July 21, 2010 @ 06:20:54 PM

stupid bitch wont give me the options to get her in bed!!!!!!

Comment #2 by bradgardener
Friday, September 17, 2010 @ 04:14:06 PM

Have you slept with anyone else yet? I think once you do, you lose the option with anyone else. Except for Morrigan.

Comment #3 by Fliz
Sunday, December 26, 2010 @ 01:49:02 PM

I don't think that matters I got the achev for sleeping with Alistar and Zevran on the same run

Comment #4 by Toams07
Thursday, December 30, 2010 @ 12:23:51 PM

Sleeping with others doesn't matter
I did Zevran, Morrigan and Leliana on one playthrough
Best thing to do is to listen to her stories, talk about things SHE likes and tell her you'll be there for her and stuff

Also find yourself the ''Andraste's Grace'' flower (or something), she'll really like that one. Don't forget to give her as many other gifts she likes as possible and she'll mention something about going to bed.


Comment #5 by DoT LorD
Saturday, January 08, 2011 @ 05:40:10 PM

To Sleep With Leliana You Need To Do Her Quest First .

Give Leliana Gifts until You Fill Her Like Bar From 55% - 75% and Talk to Her.

And She Will Give You the Quest

Comment #6 by Brandon Westcott
Monday, January 31, 2011 @ 11:53:52 PM

This bitch just straight up prude

Comment #7 by magiandreas1
Friday, February 11, 2011 @ 11:36:27 AM

How do i get leliana as a party member???

Comment #8 by Son of Ander 20
Sunday, February 13, 2011 @ 06:25:59 PM

Leliana wont open her legs for my dud. i did every thing i should dut she doesnt.

Comment #9 by LizEnglish
Wednesday, February 16, 2011 @ 02:16:19 AM

To befriend and possibly romance Leliana, you'll need to make a lot of morally "good" choices to stay on her good side. To romance Leliana, you'll need to get her to fall in love with you. She won't enter your tent until she's in love. She can however fall for both male and female characters, although males will have a slightly easier time. Speak with Leliana at camp frequently and give her a lot of her gifts (listed below) to raise her approval rating of you. In dialogue, pick responses that compliment her. Always be nice to Leliana, complete her personal quest (see above), and then be sympathetic to her feelings. When you have her at 100% approval rating, she will eventually invite you into her tent.

Comment #10 by MentalSplatter
Thursday, March 03, 2011 @ 12:38:11 PM

Got her to kiss me, and apparently we're 'going out', but she won't sleep w/ me... do I have to get her to 100%??? She still hasn't offered to do a 'quest' for her. Eh.

Comment #11 by AlastorsNight
Friday, March 04, 2011 @ 02:05:34 PM

I was reading the dragon age wiki page and apparently there is a glitch where if you don't talk to her about oralis bards being spies, she won't fully reveal your self to you for she is hiding a secret that she will later regret hiding from you, only problem is that if you shower her with gifts (like I did to Alistair and Zevran) the option disappears and you can't get it back (not sure if clearing system cache works or not) so yeah, think I just pretty much screwed up my chances with her on this play through, even reloading a pervious save where her approval rating is in the mid range it still doesn't present me with the option to ask her about it so yeah, make sure not to romance her to fast, she is one of the slow, take your time characters.

Comment #12 by xRalleNx
Wednesday, March 16, 2011 @ 02:25:03 PM

The funny thing is that I don't get any personal quest from Leiliana
I got 100% on her :S

Comment #13 by xRalleNx
Wednesday, March 16, 2011 @ 02:35:11 PM

Is it when she starts to sing that the quest will be available?

Comment #14 by xRalleNx
Wednesday, March 16, 2011 @ 02:55:50 PM

It does not fucking work, sorry my language, but im getting very irretated
Because it wont fucking work... She wont reveal any goddamn secret, she just
says I have reavealed to much. Then she wont give me anymore information more
then that she likes me alot...

Comment #15 by Uncle Rodgers
Thursday, March 17, 2011 @ 05:17:42 PM

Hey all hopefully I can offer some advice on the matter. Apparently Leliana's dialogue tree is glitched (as you've probably figured out), this means that you get one chance and one chance only to bed her. Should you say the wrong thing then the chance will be gone for good. Now I did this with the help of the presents DLC. It gives you an item that she will love which I found helped a lot. Other than that Leliana loves gifts relating to Andraste. This includes the flower (found in Brecilian Forest if I'm not mistaken) as well as some other Andraste related objects.

Please look at the link as it contains the dialogue tree replies (IE, the ones you should give).
One other tip I can give is to travel around a bit a

Comment #16 by Uncle Rodgers
Thursday, March 17, 2011 @ 05:19:08 PM

*and you will be intercepted by people she knows (starting her personal quest), Do this and you should be very high with her, just follow the dialogue in the link as well and you should be fine. Hope this helps, feel free to message me on this or Xbox should you need further help.

Comment #17 by xRalleNx
Friday, March 18, 2011 @ 11:55:41 AM

In this thread you gave with dialogues I don't get the same dialogue as those
that are written on gamefaqs xD

Comment #18 by AnimaSoul
Tuesday, March 22, 2011 @ 03:03:50 PM

It is a must with Leliana to get her bar to 100%
But yeaa she is a bitch to bed!

Comment #19 by Xx Duuuke xX
Friday, March 25, 2011 @ 11:18:38 AM

Oky i just got the achievement and here's the way i did it:
My approval was at 100 and i didn't get the quest for her (You need the quest in order for her to sleep with you no matter how high ur approval is) so i reduced my approval again to about 70 (I did it with the dlc feastday pranks) and than if you talk to her she will tell you about her past, being bard etc... after that leave camp and travel back and she will tell you that she lied to you and tells you the real reason about why she left and so on. After that conversation travel around with leliana in your party and you will come across a group of assassions, complete that and you will talk with a guy and he tells you about Marjorlaine. Travel to Denerim and go to her house. I choose not to kill her but i think doing eighter willn

Comment #20 by Xx Duuuke xX
Friday, March 25, 2011 @ 03:49:14 PM

*willn't matter. After return to camp and talk to her again, after the conversation get her approval to 100% again (I did it with Dlc again) and leave and travel back to camp and you should experiance the beauty of romance with her. ;)

Comment #21 by Skullriot
Monday, March 28, 2011 @ 07:13:56 PM

thanks Xx Duuuke xX, I used your method and i got the right dialogue to open up. Props.

Comment #22 by SquatSeeker
Sunday, April 03, 2011 @ 09:25:59 AM

Xx Duuuke xX is right, however you don't have to go as far as reducing approval. I had her at 100%, but never traveled with her in my party. I swapped her out and boom the first stop is assassins. I do her quest (very quick), then head back to camp and chat her up for a little. She says she's going to bed, and I ask to come along. DING!

Comment #23 by CellFrame
Tuesday, May 10, 2011 @ 03:42:48 AM

Yeah, you don't get her quest by talking to her - you need to travel around with her.

Comment #24 by PolarizedBeaver
Thursday, May 19, 2011 @ 03:56:12 PM

It's a prick. Travelled nearly everywhere with her and can't get anything more for info out of her. Guess it comes with time and the right method

Comment #25 by theNomad
Friday, May 20, 2011 @ 06:27:55 PM

Yeah follow Xx Duuuke xX system it works.

You can sleep with both Morrigan and Leliana, I did Morrigan 1st Leliana notices you go in her tent, so you need to go back Morrigan speak and tell her you want Leliana instead.

1, Around 70 in the love scale, speak with her about bards.
2, Leave the camp with or without her, re-enter and she tells you her secret history.
3, Leave again you encounter a witch some dogs and assassins, kill them it opens the Marjorlaine quest.
4, Go kill Marjorlaine in Denerim (she has a neat tier7 rogue bow)
5, Return to camp speak with Leliana to open your night of pleasure :P you can even entertain her the following morning if you refuse to rush out.

Entertaining quests these, really gives the characters an whole new dimension, afterwards the other cha

Comment #26 by theNomad
Friday, May 20, 2011 @ 06:43:50 PM

*characters chat about you being a couple :D

Comment #27 by Apple2Forever
Tuesday, May 31, 2011 @ 04:21:59 AM

This achievement was a pain, she kissed me and we were supposedly in a relationship, but I had to break up with her in order to get her quest, do the quest, then woo her again before the achievement unlocked.

Comment #28 by LegendaryMarvel
Thursday, June 02, 2011 @ 03:10:00 PM

I can't get anything out of this. I dropped her approval of me done to 70 or less and then try to talk to her and all I can say is "nothing, never mind" or something along those lines. I don't even have the option about talking to her about her past. I've been using her in my party since I got her and still nothing. I did sleep with Morrigan first though, do I need to tell Morrigan we're done or something before I can do anything with Leiliana? 'Cuz when I slept with Morrigan it never showed Leiliana noticing or anything like that. Any help is greatly appreciated.

Comment #29 by StargazerApollo
Tuesday, June 07, 2011 @ 10:45:56 PM

Typically, you can't bed her til after you defeat marjolane. Her Romance options are really buggy and often don't show.

Comment #30 by puffyose
Wednesday, June 22, 2011 @ 08:45:27 PM

when u give her a special flower that her mom used to have u get more then a +10 approval rating with her and you even get a high approval wth alistair, so u can have a romance with him as well if ur a women

Comment #31 by Divinefury21790
Wednesday, June 29, 2011 @ 07:26:46 PM

This is easy as long as you make sure not to make her jealous by making your and Morrigans relationship a big thing in the group.

Comment #32 by B3nJam1n89
Sunday, July 03, 2011 @ 08:01:02 PM

@ Xx Duuuke xX

Just want to say thank you VERY much :)! Was in the same situation as you and that method worked a treat, you just saved me alot of hassle!

Comment #33 by Flashing Tiger
Thursday, July 07, 2011 @ 04:14:31 PM

She left my party :(

Comment #34 by Aldrahn69
Friday, August 19, 2011 @ 02:09:40 AM

This is one of the most frustrating and annoying achievements, partly because everything else in this game works just fine! I guess I'll get it using #19's suggestion on my second/third playthrough as warrior/rogue.

I really need this game to be on my completed games list!!!

Comment #35 by Rotogar
Friday, September 16, 2011 @ 04:42:43 PM

Thank you Xx Duuuke xX! So the mistake is getting her approval too high too fast? I'll be using this method tonight to try this out. Only romance I haven't got yet and I don't want to do yet another playthru just to get it...

Comment #36 by Fiery Phoenix
Thursday, September 29, 2011 @ 04:39:30 PM

The achievement is, in some sense, glitched. I missed it on my first playthrough (where I ended up romancing Morrigan instead). Basically, you have to make sure that her approval isn't too high; if it's too high, then she will be completely satisfied and will have nothing to say to you, causing you to miss out on doing her quest and, consequently, getting romantically involved with her. You'll just need to take it slow and talk to her every now and then, but don't abuse her and get the approval bar overly high and it should work out eventually.

Comment #37 by UndesiredDeath
Saturday, November 05, 2011 @ 01:30:13 AM

I find this much easier to do on a woman, frankly, and a human woman to be exact.
All I really have to do is talk to her after getting a little friendship points, and next thing you know, she saying that she likes me.
I find this more difficult as a Dalish Male, because she's "Offended" me, by saying that I'd make a good Slave D<

So, to recap, your best bet is a female human.
Then pretty much do exactly as Xx Duuuke xX tells you to.

Comment #38 by zippolighter88
Thursday, November 17, 2011 @ 07:58:48 PM

i cant get her do to say anything else other then stories i gave her the flower and any other gifts tht have to do with Andraste gifts and i havet messed anything up.

Comment #39 by amrattray
Saturday, January 14, 2012 @ 12:46:59 PM

what a pain in the ass.

Comment #40 by psybOltOn
Saturday, February 11, 2012 @ 08:36:31 AM

For those who still struggling with her:

Very detailed guide when and how you can get her in your bed.

Comment #41 by Sarcasm
Monday, February 27, 2012 @ 11:22:05 PM

This one was annoying. Not to mention that I lost my Morrigan to this dufus!

It's okay. I'll just marry Queen Anora. :P HA!

Comment #42 by Aeterna Hope
Sunday, November 25, 2012 @ 01:38:48 AM

:/ Have her at max approval did her personal quest and still no invite or option to invite to tent :(

Comment #43 by dpguto
Wednesday, December 26, 2012 @ 03:00:08 PM

Use prank gifts and low approval for her, 50-60 and leliana give the personal quest

Comment #44 by iishock92
Sunday, January 13, 2013 @ 05:34:27 PM

man i keep screwing up when trying to go for the 3 some with isabella and her

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Electronic Arts


US November 03, 2009
Europe November 06, 2009

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